Traditionally, funeral ceremonies have been derived from the various world religions according to their own rites. But a religious service carried out for someone who had no religious belief can be uncomfortable for those present. As our society becomes increasingly secular (non-religious) the demand for non-traditional funerals is on the increase as well. Current statistics show that more than half the weddings celebrated do not take place in a church.

Because there are no standardized ceremonies among secular funerals, there are no guidelines for the family planning such a service. Following are a few components that could be included in the non-religious ceremony; families may wish to use any one or all of the suggested components. This is only an outline, and families are encouraged to use any creative ideas available from family and friends.

It should be noted that some organized secular and humanist groups provide guidelines for the funeral ceremonies of one of their members. If the person being honored has been a member of one of these organizations, the group should be contacted.

Further, many religions have become more open to allowing some secular rituals to be included in their services. If any of the ideas presented in this section would provide some meaning within an otherwise religious framework, the presiding priest or minister can provide guidance on whether the idea is appropriate.